BBS software and e-club

[searain]

I am looking for a software to set up a "e-club" community. People log in set up their profiles, go to chat room or forum, check out other people's public profile, drop message, open private chat room etc.

some BBS software could do most of the work.

http://www.hotscripts.com/PHP/Scripts_and_Programs/Discussion_Boards/index.html

From this list, which one you recommend from your experience.